Kid's Zone

spinal cord injury











March 2002
v03.02

Through Life's struggles we desire to find a way to encourage others by bringing HOPE.

In This Edition
Update from Dan
Thank you to everyone for the overwhelming care that I received while I was in the hospital. I definitely had some great laughs while reading the cards and e-mails. Candi and I appreciate each of you so much! I've healed from surgery and the next few weeks will determine if my left side will get better. We will keep you posted.

Whitney Hope is still going strong. Our goals have been validated by other organizations and in every case, people can't believe how far we've come in such a short period of time. The next two months will be filled with speaking engagements and important meetings, which will pave the way to Camp Attitude. Please, please, please don't think any gift is too small. Your donation is going to make a difference in a life where everyday is a struggle. Check out how you can now give on-line!

I have told many people that I am actually glad that I broke my neck. That may sound morbid, but it's the truth. Before I broke my neck, I had managed to almost put my life in shambles. I had my priorities completely mixed up and I was hurtful to many people, including my family. I was making poor decisions and associating with the wrong type of people. It felt like I was in a black hole with no way out. The snap of my vertebrae stopped everything. It gave me time to look at who I had become and I didn't like what I saw. One tiny step at a time, with the help of God, I began making positive changes. Some of the changes came quickly and others have taken time. The result has been peace restored to my life. Candi and I are best friends again and I take time everyday to tell and show my girls how much I love them. I have a lot of people tell me I look a whole lot happier. If you are feeling like you're in a black hole, don't let it take breaking your neck to take time out and look at who you are. It might be painful, but it's definitely worth it. A little secret, every once in a while I look backwards and slip. But I'm work in progress and I'm learning more and more as I go. I'll say it again, I'm glad I broke my neck.

God bless!

Dan


"Kurt Who?" became King Kurt in just one amazing season, but Kurt Warner is one reigning athlete who is not about to let the crown go to his head.

Brenda became his girlfriend, whom Kurt first met while country line-dancing in Cedar Falls, Iowa.

Brenda and Kurt Warner were married in 1997 after a 5-year courtship. He adopted Brenda's two children, Zachary and Jessie, from a previous marriage (the Warners have since had two other children), and has helped see Brenda through some tough-and tragic-times of her own.

As an infant, Zachary, now 10, suffered brain damage after landing on his head when he accidentally slipped from the arms of Brenda's first husband. Fortunately, Zachary has made great strides from those bleak days when doctors, who first thought he wouldn't live, told Brenda her son would never walk, talk, or see.

Just a year before Brenda and Kurt were married, Brenda's parents, Larry and Jenny Carney, died when a tornado ripped through their Mountain View, Arkansas, home.

Although he may not be seeking it, fame and money-plenty of both-fell into Warner's lap after he and the Rams ascended to the top of the NFL ladder with their Super Bowl triumph over the Tennessee Titans in January 2000. Before then, Warner could walk into a restaurant around the St. Louis area with his family and not be noticed.

After the Super Bowl win, Warner moved Brenda and the kids into a more secluded home so he can give them-and himself-an oasis from all the attention.

"It's something we think we need to do for our family so we can have quality family time and not have people coming up to our front door and leaving stuff on our porch to sign," he says. "Things like that take away from the whole family atmosphere."

One of the first things Warner did after signing his new contract was donate 10 percent of his earnings to his church, St. Louis Family Church, whose pastor Jeff Perry and his wife Patty have taken Kurt and Brenda under their wing and helped the couple deal with their thrust into the national spotlight.

Achieving notoriety and wealth can, of course, be a dangerous mix for an athlete. Stories of pros getting caught in life's fast lane, or facing financial or legal troubles, appear on the sports pages almost as regularly as box scores.

Warner, however, says he has his priorities in order. "Although obviously [there have been] great blessings that the Lord has given me, I'm here to make a difference for Him," he says. "As long as I stay focused on that, I don't think I'll ever allow it to take away my humble attitude toward it."

Confidence without arrogance. Fame without pride. Riches without greed. That's the spirit of Kurt Warner. And the spirit of St. Louis' quarterback represents more than just the spirit of a city, it represents the spiritual depth of a man whose life has become an open book that's worth reading.


Article printed by permission from Spectrum Magazine: written Mike Sandrolini is a freelance writer who resides in the Chicago suburb of Warrenville, Ill.

Kurt and Brenda have begun a new Non-Profit Foundation for those in need. Take the time to visit their website at: www.firstthingsfirstfoundation.com



Wendi came home last week after spending two months in the hospital for pre-term labor complications. She is so happy to be home. We are at 35 weeks, and thrilled that God allowed Jayden to develop this far. We are out of the woods, and expect a healthy baby boy within the next few weeks. We are both so excited. Thank you and everyone that lifted our needs up to God.

  • March 10,2002 at the ARC in Oxnard,CA
  • April 13,2002 at 1st Baptist Church of Pomona,CA
  • April 23,2002 at the 7th Annual PLNU Executive Business Breakfast at the Grant Hotel in San Diego,CA