Today is Candi and Nicole's birthday. HAPPY BIRTHDAY you two.
I'm going to dedicate this update to someone that is very special to me.
This person has all the qualities that I wish I had. I have watched this
person go through life's struggles that make anything that I have gone
through look like a stroll in the park. It's amazing how many of the same
interests we have. We seem to almost know what each other is thinking. I
can remember a time when we went to a local football game together. We
walked through a mile of dirt and I complained the whole way. We watched
the game while it was freezing cold, we sat in the wrong seats, I got ticked
at the guy behind me, and we got stuck in traffic. Guess who didn't
complain a bit? You got it . . . my friend. We found that we had the same
interests in cars, movies, sports and so much more. I think we became best
friends when we met. Don't hold this against my friend, but we are both
Dodger fans. It seems like my friend has always been there for me. My
friend was there when I got engaged, married, when my father passed away,
the birth of both my kids, and most recently when I broke my neck. My
friend didn't say too much, but was just there. My friend is an exemplary
Christian. If the roles were reversed, I'm not sure that I would have been
near as good of a friend. I would definitely be thinking to myself ģI hope
none of this guy's bad luck rubs off on me! My friend knows when to
constructively correct me when I am wrong and is always sure to point out
all the positives in every situation. I honestly do not think my friend
fears anything. My friend once rolled a car down an embankment and walked
away from it without hardly a scratch. I know my friend will always be
there for me. We made a pact a long time ago to always be "best friends".
My friend has never let me down. I am thankful for my friend and I wanted
to use this as my opportunity to say "thank you".
My physical progress has slowed recently. My left leg is pretty weak and my
left arm continues to not want to move. All the muscles are firing but the
tone continues to hold the physical progress back. I had someone ask me
recently, "Are you getting depressed with your progress?". My answer was
"NO". I look at it from the perspective every day that I am starting from
being paralyzed and working my way forward. Plus, I have watched Whitney
Hope take off to heights I would have never expected. I am looking forward
to seeing all the smiling faces and watching as I see people with physical
disabilities live a more enjoyable life. Sometimes, it feels like
physically healthy people are the one's who are handicapped. Wait until you
see how your prayers and donations affect so many lives for the better.
Those of you who know me know that what I am about to ask makes me extremely
uncomfortable and is hard for me to do. As Whitney Hope grows, so do our
expenses. We have one full-time person that relies wholly on donations for
income and two others who give their time without any compensation. Whitney
Hope recently received a check for $50.00 with a note that read:
"We know this is not a lot, but we want to help as much as we can." The note went on
to say that they know someone who is very special to them that has
disabilities and they are certain that a camp like this would mean so much
to this individual. I watch with amazement as our full-time staff person
goes further and further into debt to support this cause. I take this
opportunity to ask you to give a little to a cause that will mean so much.
You can determine the best way to give by visiting www.whitneyhope.com or by
contacting our main office at PO Box 3576, Ventura, CA 93006-3576 or calling 805.658.1189.
It is my
personal vision to eventually obtain corporate sponsors for all expenses and
to have personal donations go directly to sponsor scholarships. This is
going to grow into something pretty unimaginable and your assistance can
ensure we stay focused on what matters most: providing inspiration,
providing a camp for the disabled, and erecting a building which will serve
as a safe haven for individuals and their families while they adjust to
living the rest of their lives with a spinal cord injury. Thank you so
much!
By the way, for those of you wondering how badly my brain was affected by
this accident, you'll be glad to know that I did not sustain any brain
damage or memory loss in the accident. I purposely did not name the
individual above because I wanted to save the best for last. If you didn't
already guess, that person is Candace Ann Claassen who now goes by Candi
Whitney. Sometimes I think it took breaking my neck to realize how
fortunate I really am. God knew what He was doing when He gave Candi to
this world.
Dan